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[quote=Anonymous]"Hi OP, please keep in mind that this is one big issue that you have already encountered with FI that he isn't handling well. If you marry him, which clearly you want to, there will be other issues that he isn't handling well. You and he need to find a way to work as a team, and ensure that you can do so, before you get married. If he can't deal with this issue, do you want to deal with his ignoring big, important issues like his son's health, for the rest of your life?" Yep. It doesn't sound like you two have the same parenting values or life values. You need to put the engagement on hold until you really talk this through. You have legitimate concerns that he is avoiding. Having been married to an avoidant person, I can tell you that it is pure hell to try to deal with any of life's big issues - buying a house, planning a vacation, parenting a child. Every decision is a struggle and it sucks the energy from you.[/quote]
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