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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a little weird that a dude sleeps around casually but gets guilty and finds it necessary to hurt you with information you don't need.[/quote]

this.

I've been in this situation once and it was very uncomfortable to not have had an exclusivity talk (because I wasn't sure I was ready to be exclusive) and be sleeping with someone...that turned into two someones.  I liked both women tremendously (and am now married to one of them) and just hadn't decided who I thought would make the better long term partner....the other woman probalby would have been a good partner too...I finally just got really lucky.  However, although DW and I have admitted we both went on dates with others after we met, there is no way I would ever share that I'd slept with someone else..and I don't want to know if DW slept with the other person.

There is absolutely no good reason to share that information - the best/nicest is a weird sense of needing to be hyper-transparent. That's not malicious (unlike the other creepier motives I can think of) but it definitely shows poor judgment.  [/quote]

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