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[quote=Anonymous]Not my ex. The marriage was toxic. Coparenting with him is almost worse because he has nothing to gain by being civil to me. Almost-DH #2 (less than 60 days!) possibly. Maybe because we won't have kids together, but mostly because he's indisputably a better human than my ex. We fight fair anyway and have a mutually beneficial prenup so we could "consciously uncouple" (gag) without tearing each other apart. I see that as the key to staying friends. 20 years later, I am casual friends with a BF whose proposal I turned down on the second worst day of his life. Thankfully, I had no idea what else was going on for him because I would have said yes out of pity. Today, we're friends on FB and live about 10 min apart so we bump into each other at the grocery store or park with his kids. I'm glad he forgave me for breaking his heart, but when we reconnected a decade ago, I knew that I never wanted back the intense friendship we had prior to dating. [/quote]
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