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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: I expected some people to be nice and some to be harsh so not a big deal. I'm in therapy and have been for about 4 months now and it's helped a lot. My therapist thinks my mom is bipolar but obviously he can't say for sure unless he were to meet her and see for himself. My dad knows my mom has issues and he's on the verge of divorcing her. He uses me as his personal therapist when she's not around to constantly complain to me about how she's such a bitch to him, treats him like shit, etc. I have a younger sibling who is 15 and I think he's waiting until she's out of school to divorce my mom even though my sister flat out told me and my dad that she's been wishing they'd get divorced since she was in 4th grade since all they do is fight.

As to why I even moved in to begin with- she travels a TON for work. She's gone anywhere from 2-5 days a week, traveling out of state so I honestly thought it wouldn't be a huge deal as she wouldn't be around a lot and if she was, she doesn't get home until 7pm and I could just go to my bedroom and not be around her. However, this last week she's been home a lot as she has a break from work and [b]we were actually getting along wonderfully up until Monday night when she just snapped[/b]. I was NOT looking for a fight with her at all as i know where it leads to when it does happen. I tried my hardest to not cave in and say anything but it's a bit hard when you are being attacked. I won't stand for being punched and I had to push her off me. I've been out of the house at 9am every day and don't get home until 6pm. I come home, make myself dinner and head straight upstairs before she gets home so we have minimal contact. I went to my friends house Monday night when it happened but she's married with a 6 month old so I'm not going to "crash" there for another 2 weeks. I just have to make it through today, Thursday and Friday and then I'll be gone until Tuesday night and once I'm back, I only have 3 days left. [/quote]

This will continue to happen with her or anyone else unbalanced in your life.  You think "if I only do this, stay out of her way, don't push her buttons, etc, then I will be fine." It's not true. It's never true. Crazy always comes back. Ten years from now, you may think it's all ok and she's better now, but unless she's on major medications or has undergone a lobotomy, the crazy will still rear its head. Good luck to you. [/quote]

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