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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear OP, it sounds indeed like you need help just as much as he. Why, oh why couldn't you just have sat back, enjoyed the day with your child and in the evening opened a bottle of wine to share with friends, while your husband orders pizza? He may have ADHD, but you seem to have a very high need for control. Learn to relax and go with the flow.[/quote] Man, you *really* don't get it. If this had been a one-time thing, your suggestion would be perfectly appropriate. But this is a habitual pattern of OP's spouse not pulling his weight, and OP having to scramble to fix spouse's mess-ups at the last minute. You clearly have zero idea how draining that is, how it makes it essentially impossible to relax (because you're always "on duty" just in case...), and how opening a bottle of wine is not the answer at all! [/quote]
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