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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I don't have any hang ups about it.  It doesn't change how I feel about or view my husband.  We were just hanging out on the couch talking and he said "There's something I've wanted to tell you for a long time," and he told me.  He says that he doesn't really think much about the abuse anymore.  Being his wife, I can see some ways that it may still be affecting him.  As far as the "relationship," is it pretty normal for men to experiment but still be heterosexual?  I'm accepting, but a bit confused.[/quote]

Experimenting is normal. It varies from person to person. Your husband may have been experimenting, he may have been trying to work out something emotionally, he may be bi.

Don't drive yourself crazy trying to sort this evaluate your relationship now.[/quote]

Agreed.

Also, therapy is a good idea due to the CSA, for both you and him. However, the only person you can control is you. So I would suggest you start therapy to deal with your feelings, and maybe he will be inclined to join.

Also, based on how this board normally goes, this thread is probably going to devolve into homophobia pretty soon, so be prepared to tune it out. That, or ask Jeff to move it to the LGBT forum, which seems to be a little kinder/the assholes get deleted. [/quote]

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