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[quote=Anonymous]It was a huge thing that he trusted you to confide in you about the rape. Don't make the mistake of tying every behavior he has to that. It might be related but that's for him to deal with. Your role is to be supportive in whatever way he needs as long as it's not harmful. Reassure him you still love him. He may or may not choose therapy. You might benefit from some resources to learn the best way to cope with this new info. From how you describe the relationship it sounds like his boyfriend may have been abusive or controlling. More surprises may be coming, op.[/quote]
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