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What makes you unattracted to your spouse?   A bunch of stuff, really.

Are you still attracted to and turned on by other men (cute doctor, guy at the gym etc) or is that part of your brain just switched off entirely?  Definitely still attracted.

What would you say is the main reason (relationship or otherwise) that you and your spouse are not sexually active?  It started as regular postpartum fatigue/lack of sleep.  Then he was very dismissive of my fears about painful postpartum sex, made it all about him not feeling desired, and basically expects me to do all the initiating.  But when I do, he doesn't want to--he wants to talk about how he feels about our lack of intimacy, rather than actually do something about it.  He never initiates, never seduces, and never makes me feel sexually attractive.  It's turned sex into a chore, one more of a million chores that I never seem to perform to his satisfaction.  If he ever actually made an effort to get something going, I wouldn't turn him down, but he never does.

Do you still take care of your own needs? Yep.[/quote]

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