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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What caused problems was,
1) I wanted him to brush his teeth first.  This made me, according to him, too uptight/not spontaneous/not passionate.

2) every time had to be film worthy.  In other words I had to act like a porn star.  I just didn't have the energy all the time.

3) I had to service him regularly or he'd get grumpy, mean etc.  So I tried to keep the frequency up, but then got criticized for not being "passionate" enough.

In other words, I think he had unrealistic expectations of what sex would be like after ten years of marriage, two kids, two jobs, etc. etc.  I know I had my failings too, but at least I wanted to try, and did try.[/quote]

Guys' first impression of sex seems to influence their definition of regular sex.  They often get the first regular sex from their college GF who is young, full of hormones and HAS to have it.  Plus she's got lots of free time, no kids, job, house, exhausting schedule, etc.  Pretty much, he's her only focus.

Because that's their first experience, they think thats the way sex is supposed to be.  Parn doesn't help any either.[/quote]

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