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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am type A and my DH is not.  We have been married 23 years.  I think he wishes he had married somebody less type A.  I think, when we married, he thought I would eventually calm down but of course I have not. That is my nature.  I am happy to let him be who he is.  I always was thinking that I'd just travel by myself and work hard while he relaxed.  But I think he wishes I'd spend a lot more time just vegging with him.  I think he thinks I create too much tension in our family life by trying to juggle too many things.[/quote]

This sounds a little like the dynamic in my family (only married 15 years though). My wife will complain about being overworked, but the fact is she has frequently scheduled a bunch of crap she didn't need to schedule. (This week: marathon training, a garage sale, and post-season parties for the kids' baseball teams). Of course, a big part of my problem with the situation is that she is too tired and never has time for sex. [/quote]

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