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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We got fed up and told her that we would be happy to pay for needs directly.  Child wants to play soccer and mom will not use child support.  Fine, send us the flyer and we will send the coach the payment.  Send us what cleats he wants and other needs and we will send them.  Need clothing.  Ok, send a wish list with sizes, colors and brands.  Need shoes, ok pick reasonably priced and we will buy.  Need school supplies, send a list.  Never heard back so apparently the need was fake or she wanted to take credit and slam dad for not helping. [/quote]

D this.

My family runs a kid business.

Most moms put the kids first.

Some do not. They take the dance tuitionnor soccer fees and spend it on whatever.

If she wants more, pay the gymnastics tuition directly, the clothing store directly (or clothing store gift cards), the school tuition directly. Purchase the year books, make a separate check out directly to the camp.

Most kids activities are happy with this type of arrangement in divorce situations.[/quote]

We actually stopped with the gift cards as she'd use them to buy the stuff and take credit for it.  She'd then call dad a deadbeat for not sending more money (she pretended she didn't get child support).  We'd also just regularly send stuff and generally the kids never got it despite confirmation it was delivered from the post office.  My husband's ex would ask for the money to get a reaction out of him.  Originally he could not afford it, but I'd help with some of the extra's so she figured she was entitled to my money too.  We have no idea where the child support went as boyfriend paid the rent and major bills, she wasn't a drug addict and she wasn't lavishly spending on herself (nor did she save it).[/quote]

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