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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I had my life over again, I would not adopt. It has been the biggest regret of my life. Every day I feel I am being punished. I did it out of kindness, and it has backfired on me. Genes will out at the end of the day and you can't fix damaged children.[/quote] Tough to consider but maybe you did not do it out of love. I say this as someone who always thought I would adopt until I had my own children. The biological connection does not make the love flow effortlessly. I still have to make the active decision to turn on the faucet of love most days and nights. If it is this hard with the children of my body, what right could I have to expect things to be better with another child?[/quote]
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