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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The baby is supposed to cure the adoptive parents of the trauma of infertility - impossible The newborn misses its own mother - it is called the primal wound. The baby knows it is with a caretaker it does not know. Adoptive parents are jealous of the bio parents, the kid is made to feel guilty, when it wants to search the parents are against it. This results in some cases even in blackmail. i.e. They did not want you, we raised you Sometimes society is negative toward adoption. You stay as the adopted cousin[/quote] Are you really this ignorant, or are you just pretending!!![/quote] I think what she said is true. I know someone who is adopted who is now 5o yrs old and her adoptive mother refuses to even discuss her adoption. Her adopted brother did not know he was adopted (4 yrs. younger than my friend) until he was grown because adoptive mother was so afraid they might want to locate biological mother. Adoptive mother was, and still is, jealous and she is 80 yrs. old![/quote]
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