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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Previous PP (of two posts). I love you (OP here). I woke up miserable and sad and down.

I am not a saint - believe me. I am not trying to be childish or immature. I am just putting it out there that I am truly just raising kids with DH and we are not happily married. Maybe misery loves company but I wanted to know I am not alone.

I am working on things. I am depressed and am seeing a therapist and am starting to exercise. 
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OP, (I'm the PP) I'm so glad you are working on things and seeing a therapist and exercising (exercise really helps me!).

I'm not assuming you are a saint. One thing I know is that all of us are flawed. And my flaws are different from yours and his and hers, and I try not to judge people. I know we are all capable of horrible actions.

Things feel overwhelming and sad and flat and miserable right now for you. No, you are not alone. It is easy to let things get out of control bad. The marriage counseling and talking All.The.Time. with my spouse has really helped me. I was depressed and lonely and hurting, but not admitting any of it to my DH, and much less myself.

It sounds like you don't have a connection with your DH. I think you need to be totally honest with him and tell him how much you miss him and what you once were together. And be honest about your feelings ... Both with yourself and him. It is OK to feel all those feelings. Hate, anger, disappointment, regret, sadness .... all ok.

SO big hugs, you can do this.[/quote]

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