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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here once again: does anyone think I'm being a total jerk about this? I'm honestly fighting back panic attacks every time I walk into my house and lay fresh eyes on the mess. I'm one of those people whose mood is deeply affected by my house being dirty or disorganized. She knows this. I've been like this our whole lives.

And yet I hear her on the phone at least once a day with our mother, laughing about what a bitch I am for "needing the house to look perfect all the time." They keep saying I need to go to therapy for my "control issues" and that I'm OCD. Like...fine, I'm a bit meticulous but if I were living for free in someone's house, I'd definitely try to keep things to their standards. Am I really being a bitch? [/quote]

I don't think you're being enough of a bitch. Grow a backbone and kick her out now. Screw her and your mother. [/quote]

I agree 100%.  OP - you need to grow a backbone. You said in an earlier message that you don't want to do the "stuff outside, locks changed" thing because it hasn't come to that.  Wake up, sweetheart.  IT HAS.  How long has she been there?!  How long has she been telling you that she's moving out?

If you don't grow a backbone, then you need to quit bitching and accept that your sister will just walk all over you for the rest of your life.  [/quote]

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