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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what you've described doesn't sound like OCD, it sounds more like Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder--perfectionistic, rigid, controlling: http://psychcentral.com/disorders/obsessive-compulsive-personality-disorder-symptoms/ This might just be the way he is--personality disorders are hard to treat, and people usually don't willingly seek help if they have one. Good luck, it sounds like a tough situation to be in.[/quote] If you want any chance of the situation getting better, do not resort to attacking PERSONALITIES. That's not fair and more of an ultimatum which gives no one room to improve. Focus on BEHAVIORS you want from him and vice versa and what is fair. Yes, canned beans taste better but it's not realistic to be planning 50 things every day. Maybe you need a housekeeper that DH can makes lists and lists of things to do for. Seriously. Then go enjoy your life, DH and kids more. [/quote]
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