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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  The "friends" are aware why we separated.  My ex had an affair and a child with his homewrecker of a whore.  To me this is doubly hurtful.  I feel like they just left me in the cold.

During my ex's affair and when he moved out, I was reeling and not very strong emotionally to reach out to anyone.  [/quote]
It's possible they thought you didn't want to be bothered with them. You don't know what your husband told them, so why hold it against them? And not to be unkind, but another possibility is that they cared for your husband more than you and would rather be friends with him. Unless you were under the impression that you were super close to them personally, it's disappointing but not really a reason to be angry- those things happen.[/quote]

No, I'm not angry.  Just asking thoughts on how you would react this this type of situation.  However, I have to add that if you have never experienced a cheating spouse, you and everyone else would never understand the depth of the cut.[/quote]

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