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[quote=Anonymous]I am a dissenting voice here. I left a cheating spouse because I knew that I could never trust him again. I do think there are situations, though, where someone can have an affair or have a bit of a mid-life crisis and then come back to the marriage. That is very unusual though. You need to ask yourself whether you truly want to take her back or whether you view it as the easiest option. Her excuses are pretty commonplace amoung cheaters. Most of them claim to have been the victim of some personal attack or slight from their spouses. No marriage is perfect; there is usually some truth to their thoughts -- but cheating is not a viable approach to resolving those issues or improving the marriage. You don't really need to make any decisions right away. Wallow in it for a while. Until you figure out what you really want, don't make a decision. There is no deadline to file. [/quote]
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