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[quote=Anonymous]I think what we see on this thread is that there is no one right way, other than that you must do what is best for your children. They are adults now, or soon to be, and their opinions are paramount. If they want to go to college together, and the colleges they are considering are places where both can get what they need and be happy (e.g., if one wants to be an engineer and the other wants to be a singer, sending them both to a music conservatory would be a bad idea no matter how much they want to be together; if one is a top-notch student and the other mediocre, it might not be in the better student's best interests to follow her sister to a school where she will not be challenged, etc), then it seems to me you must let them do what they want.

I would, however, make sure that this is what they BOTH want, and not that one wants it and the other is just going along with it. If I felt that it was the latter situation, I would gently but firmly steer them to different schools.[/quote]

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