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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am so sorry to hear what you and your DH are going through.  We experienced something similar.  My DH lost his job when I was expecting our first child.  I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but this IS going to work out.

One thing I said to my husband was, I know we did not plan it this way, but let's focus on the positive - we can use this time to prepare for the baby arriving, you will be home to bond during the newborn phase.

So, for you -- You are going to need support for sure with the birth of your third child (congratulations!) and your DH will be home - this is a silver lining.  It will be a special time for family bonding that you otherwise would not have had in quite the same way.  You're also in a new house.  He can work on projects you wanted done to get the house all moved in and in tip-top shape.

As for finding a new job, I don't think you should assume you have to move.  Since you all are happy here, especially your eldest son, I would encourage you to explore options in the area so that you can stay put.  Has your DH ever considered pastoral counseling?  Sounds like he is a people person who doesn't like administration.  Maybe a one-on-one role would be better for him.  He might need another degree or certification, but could it be done online?  What about jobs with non-profits that aren't necessarily the same role as a pastor but that would greatly utilize his skills?  Would he be open to considering something different than what he has been doing?  And in the time he is looking for work, I would say volunteer, volunteer, volunteer.  You never know when it might open a door to employment and it is also good for staving off the bad feelings that unfortunately will creep up about unemployment.

One last thing - don't forget to take care of yourself.  You are doing everything you can to support your family, which is wonderful, but cut yourself some slack too.  We are rooting for you!  All the best to you.[/quote]

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