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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm sorry. You've made the right choice; now you must deal with the possibility that your parents are too entrenched in their unhealthy patterns to change. My mother is an abusive person- yells, belittles manipulates, emotionally blackmails, lies (hasn't hit since I was a teenager though). My dad did exactly what yours did-- told me to do whatever it takes to smooth it over. That's abysive too. I told them in no uncertain terms I wouldn't tolerate it and he didn't budge. Yours might not budge. And as much as it might hurt to process that you weren't worth the effort to change, try to consider that you are better off without them. Your kids don't need this. Your husband doesn't need this. You don't need this -- or them. [/quote]
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