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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All of this and you still don't know what is going on? How can you "acquiesce" if you don't know?[/quote] OP here-the reason I don't know what's going on is that crazy people who use the silent treatment often do it with no real provocation or obvious reason. When my mother does this, I have to try to guess about what's going on and then kiss her ass until it's all smoothed over. If any of this was rational, then I could address it and move on.[/quote] Here's the explanation - your mother seeks dominance to feel validated and important. So she may love you, in her own twisted way, but it's not a love that's ever going to make you happy, since she will always use emotional torture and blackmail to seek expressions of love and abject compliance from you. YOU have to break the cycle. Nobody else can do it. [/quote]
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