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[b]I think you should be patient for a little while longer, OP.[/b]

Keep pressing your brother - he has to do the right thing. There is definitely a right and wrong here! It's not a MYOB situation, it's a moral situation (and I am not religious or anything). 
Right would be to welcome this young person as his child and have him meet his family. 
Wrong is to keep it hushed up. 
Every year the burden becomes harder on the child.

You can explain that therapy would be a great way to deal with reunification of the family. Your brother can go by himself first before making a decision.

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This, but don't bother with your brother.  This kid must know who his father b/c you have a relationship with him--regardless if he's ever met his father.  His mother must have clued him in.

Please continue to include him as part of your family b/c he is.  If he asks or your kids ask; tell the truth.  Don't try to force relationships; they either come or they don't.[/quote]

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