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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you sound very rational and reasonable.  I can understand why you would be very uncomfortable with a big wedding and I am surprised that your fiancé is pushing it.  I would tell him that you are uncomfortable since your family and friends already did the big wedding with you.  I would put my foot down and say no shower, no bachelorette party, no wedding party, no fancy wedding dress., and no registry. Could you encourage him to do a courthouse or immediate family ceremony then just have a big party at the country club?  How old is he?  [/quote]
grow up
they can have have a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuugeeee wedding if they want -- this is not 1823.
Geezus Christmas[/quote]

Sure they can do whatever they want but OP doesn't want it.  I think she has every right to tell her DH she doesn't want to re-do all that stuff and [b]I don't think he should be forcing her[/b].  Part of the package of marrying her is that she was married before and has every right to say no.  I personally would not choose to do all this stuff again and invite the same people.[/quote]

Sure they can do whatever they want but the groom wants a big wedding. I think he has every right to tell his DW that he wants to have a big wedding, and I don't think she should be forcing him not to. Part of the package of marrying him is that he hasn't been married before and has every right to say yes to a big wedding.

Right?[/quote]

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