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[quote=Anonymous]Troll.

I will say I really TRIED to date a man who was TRULY poor- as in living off Social Security Disability Poor.

After seeing that his check (which was ~$1200 a MONTH) was being garnished for back child support, which brought it down to $800 a month....

....and him living with his parents in his 40's because obviously he couldn't get an apartment in the DC metro area making only $800 a month....

...and he was too "scared" to work a PT job even because he was afraid to lose the benefits it took him 2 years to get....

...I bailed.

I'm sorry but a grown man making $200 a week off disability will in NO WAY be able to help me out (his cell phone bill alone was $100 as he had to have unlimited internet because his parents were churchgoing people who thought internet was "the devil").

I mean it was nice he was a God-fearing man and treated me like a queen....

....but this queen would like her man to at least be able to pay even 1/3 of the mortgage ($2200) to help out if he would be living there.

...I guess he thought I would allow him to live with  me rent free like all the other women he has dated him his life.

I asked the ex (yes he introduced me as they lived in the same area) why they broke up- she said the same thing- He refused to work anything past a simple temp job, would get laid off, then sit around awhile until his little money ran out...

....although he COULD handle a simple office job like file clerk (his disability was physical, not mental! He was not in a wheelchair or anything, just walked a bit slow but was otherwise ok! He could still have sex though!) and help her out with bills.

Sorry, not going to be a "mother" to a grown ass man!

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