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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here:

I really hate that my sibling really F's me over with all their changes in holiday plans. They change plans on my parents and all of a sudden they are banging down my door.

This has happened several times now. In fact, one year, when I was first married, my sibling changed plans for Christmas - deciding to go to the inlaws instead. I already had made plans to have my inlaws down for Christmas that year, knowing that my parents would already have plans. My parents literally asked me to cancel on my inlaws, so they could come instead, so they wouldn't be alone for Christmas....

It's stuff like this that makes me want to book a vacation away for every major holiday.[/quote]
woooooooaaaaaaaaaa
first and foremost -- I pray that your health gets better and better.
2nd thing - don't be a hater because your sibling lives their life the way they want. If they want to change plans at the last minute, they have that perogative. That does not mean you have to host your parents. You are enabling. That is your choice. Make a different choice.
Your parents are grown ass people, let them live with grown ass choices and respect their grown ass kids.
P.S.
OP: KICK CANCER IN THE ASS!!!!!![/quote]

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