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[quote=Anonymous]If you adopt this baby, then you are the parent. Be kind, be understanding, and if necessary be firm to your brother and anyone else that you are the child's mother (when you become the child's mother) and that is that and circumstances about how that came to be are done and over and it's now different than if you were the bio parent. When you become the mother, you become the mother, and if they can't deal with it then that's not drama you or the child needs. No need to get petty or dramatic about it: if they start misbehaving or playing games it is your job to make it clear than they can have a normal and close uncle/aunt relationship with your child, or they can come back to you when and if they decide they have let it go. [/quote]
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