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[quote=Anonymous]Tell her. It is the right thing to do. Getting this out in the open is best for everyone. The information will help Mom see her darling DH in a true light for the monster he is. It is fair that he carries the guilt, if not shame. Your Mom will be hurt telling her about the abuse. The pain she feels will be fair for the incompetent parenting, bad choices in husband, and it may knock down her some as it sounds like she is still a controlling narcissist. As an adult, and so is your mom, everyone is mature enough for the truth and no one owes anyone any withholding/white lies/whitewashing of the true history. Keeping quiet, especially to protect the perpetrator i[u]s the abuse still going on.[/u] It is time to stop this episode in your lives, assert yourselves, and reclaim your freedom. You owe that to yourselves. Don't wait. [/quote]
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