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[quote=Anonymous]DH has many female friends from various times in his life. Some of them are people that I know and like. Some are people that I don't know. Several are people that I don't like. DH is 41, I'm 35. The female friends range generally in age from a bit younger than me to our moms' ages.

He has never been secretive about these friendships. If he makes plans with them, he doesn't exclude me from those plans or hide them from me. The plans are often things that I'm not particularly interested in, so I often bail.

I'm not threatened by my husband having emotional connections to other women. He cares about them and respects them, the same way that he cares about and respects his male friends. Maybe he thinks they're pretty, maybe not. I haven't asked because I honestly don't think about it that much.

I would be bothered by these relationships if and only if he was hiding them from me, or being sketchy about them, or if there was some indication that the woman was being inappropriate. [/quote]

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