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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divide and conquer. My family would totally understand if my DH went to a cousin's wedding while I went to my brother's wedding. While they like DH, appreciate and respect my marriage, it's just not that important to them if he's there and if there is an event where he'd be more appreciated, they're fine with him going to it.[/quote] Kind of where I fall. I think you have to consider the individuals for whom the wedding is about. Time and again on this board the mantra is it's about the couple getting married. OP's brother probably doesn't care if her DH is there are not. The cousin probably does care. Divide and conquer. I really dislike the her family trumps his family rhetoric being spewed by some. It's not a road OP wants to go down.[/quote] Not her family because she's a woman, her family trumps because it's a brother versus a we-are-not-close-today cousin.[/quote]
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