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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She loves to shop. She loves to look at baby clothes and feel them and buy them. She loves to wrap them and send them. It's what she likes to do. If you can just donate them and say she outgrew them, j do t see what the big deal is. With babies that is basically what happens to clothes you love too. What you can't do well (and there have been a bunch of threads on this) is ask for something else without seeming ungrateful. [b]Even a "please no more clothes, but we would love a college fund donation" is off putting and comes off rude even with the best intentions. [/b]See paragraph 1: she loves to shop and give gifts, she doesn't want to write a chela for a college fund. I read into your post that you want to redirect the funds and you can do that unless asked.[/quote] +1 She is reliving the baby phase without the trouble of the baby. And it is just rude to say "and I donated most of it because it is just clutter to me"[/quote]
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