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[quote=Anonymous]OP -- First, I am so sorry that this happened to you.  I experienced something very similar and was devastated. So I know what you're going through.  I discovered that my husband had had an online affair that lasted for months.  I was also aware that he occasionally watched porn, which bugged me, but I didn't make a huge deal about it.  However, the online relationship was, for me, a real betrayal.  We, too, had had issues for which we sought counseling.  Some of our issues stemmed from his struggles with alcohol, specifically binge drinking to deal with the stress of working for a pressure-cooker law firm.  He claimed that he started this online affair during a low point while drinking.  He has been sober for about two years, but I continue to worry about what he's doing online.  We have two kids, and I am a sahm.  I have contemplated divorce more times than I can count; but I feel paralyzed when I try and visualize what that would all look like.  Hang in there.  My advice would be to get your own therapist, rather than couples counseling.  I started meeting with a therapist about 4 months ago, and my time with her has become a very important outlet for me.  Best of luck.[/quote]

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