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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My Dh left his laptop on and open overnight and I saw that he participated in a sex chat with (I assume) a woman. Nothing freaky regular BJ and HJ type of fantasies. I am obviously very hurt. I know he looks at porn, he does not make a secret out of it. But participating in a chat is taken it to a whole new level. I printed out some screenshots but have not confronted him yet. There are other issues in the marriage that we are workin on, but now I am so grossed out that I don't know if I will ever move pass this. Anyone BTDT? Is chatting the new cheating? Or am I making a big deal out of it, and chatting is the 21st century porn? [/quote]

Yeah I would be grossed out and alarmed as well. Let him know you  find it creepy as well. I don't know if you have kids, but is that something he wants his kids to be exposed to....

Tell him to use better judgement and not go to those sites, and that you find it disappointing.  I would leave it at that, no argument and watch him closely.

Go from there.

What other problems are there?  These may be red flags as well to his personality flaws.  Don't ignore. [/quote]

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