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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP. We do have problems and saw a therapist 4 times.  He did not want to follow through with advice/exercises so nothing came out of counseling.  Cannot remember last time we had sex because I am in bed by 11 and he goes to bed around 2-3 am, most nights falling asleep in front of the TV on the couch.  I have initiated and made overtures but he is rarely interested. We have discussed lack of intimacy many times. There is no resolution in sight.  He sees intimacy as work and a hassle.  I think he is escaping into virtual reality because it is easier. Most problems in our marriage stem from his incredible laziness and my short fuse and tolerance for said laziness. Despite problems I never contemplated a divorce because we have kids, in general get along well, and have built a comfortable life together.  Honestly, if he had a physical affair I would be more likely to sort out my feelings however with this chat business I just feel gross and can't get past the disgust to sort out how I feel about this. [/quote]

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