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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We had our rocky phases when the kids were little.  I found that travelling for work for a week helped us cool off and perhaps miss each other a bit.  It was never six months though.  It would help us, but we may be unique.

I know you say "living like roomates" isn't code word for not having enough sex, but as a man I read it that way.  I know it's cliche, but once we started having sex again, all the resentment and hostility faded away or at least was dealt with much more kindness and empathy.  I would definitely encourage you to try and find someway to reignite the sex life before he goes away.[/quote]

Yes, but as you say, you're a man.  I find it hard to have sex with someone who said some of the things he said to me.  I'm not holding a grudge, but I can't forget. And I know it's cliche from the other end, but my mind isn't into sex when the kitchen 20 feet away makes me want to vomit.

I also know that pre-separation, I start building a wall, and that's normal.  I think that might cause problems too.

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