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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not your place to decide what your husband shares or doesn't share with his sister.  It's their relationship.  Your post is really about what she shared with him and your displaced feelings of anger, jealousy, and discomfort.

You say you "pointed out" that she will likely have fertility issues.  My god.  How thoughtless and mean.  And how unnecessary.  Do you think she lives in an alternate reality where women of 40 don't realize their chances of conception?  Why was it your place to "school" her on her chances of conception?  And why the grotesque assumption that she did not know the basics of fertility?  Are you the only person on earth who does?  Maybe she's trying to conceive anyway.

You sound like a real piece of work.  You are clearly jealous of your husband's relationship with his sister, and you seem like the clear shit-stirrer in this situation.  When she does get pregnant and have a baby, please try not to impede and upset the relationship with your bulletins about birth defects and other ugly advice.

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Wrong.

OP, tell your husband to learn from this and not to pass things on that might be sensitive. Mine does this sometimes, especially if he wants to say something to her that we've discussed but wants to hide behind attributing it to me. I've told him it causes trouble between me and SIL, which is bad for him. And now you know you have to tell him "don't share this with your sister."  [/quote]

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