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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hmmm...rants on racial purity, yuck.  What do you say when she does this? i would be PISSED. PISSED. And tell her never to talk like that again in your presence (or, kids, if you have them).

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This is a good point. Do you have kids? If not, I would probably divorce. You can't ignore your ILs once you have kids, and they will influence your kids.

I really wish I had chosen a better father/family for my kids.[/quote]

Not yet. I am honestly scared to think of having kids with them involved. I know my dh would make a wonderful kind father. His parents are kind loving people but their hearts are closed off to the muslim world and anyone who is not white. I've heard them speak ill of mexicans, blacks are of course the worst and even asian people.

I worry about my children being exposed to these conversations at the dinner table. I worry my MIL will try to force them to go to church. DH and I have talked about raising them loosely muslim but immersed in christian/american tradition such as Christmas and Thanksgiving.
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