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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think you need to "grovel", but it would be nice for your DH's sake (and for your children) to grin and bear it. Elderly people aren't going to change. Not an excuse, just how it is. And it sounds like from your DH's perspective it is more important to maintain the relationship with all its faults than to be estranged, however justified you may be in your feelings. We had a similar issue with a member of my family (admittedly very difficult), where DW simply refused to make nice and get along. I'm now basically estranged from that part of my family, and I resent DW for her significant role in that. I think you owe it to your spouse not to ruin or place stress upon a family relationship that ultimately is important to him, even if it is not important to you and you can easily walk away while feeling good and righteous and very certain that you are not at fault. [/quote]
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