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[quote=Anonymous]OP back again. You all are so incredibly helpful and insightful. I appreciate the various perspectives, and I'm also relieved to read a lot that affirms my own instinct - that if I'm comfortable with the idea of DE and want to minimize the risk of additional heartache, there's nothing irrational about choosing to go the donor route before even one IVF cycle with my own egg. I know there are big tradeoffs associated with "giving up" on the idea of a biological child, but I'm realizing more and more that DH and I are just not up for the emotional and physical cost of trying to beat the odds with my OE. I'm still very sad about it all, and we'll keep trying to catch that one good egg on our own in the meantime, but we're ready to feel a bit more in control over things and put our family ahead of my biology. I was not expecting to feel so positive about things so soon and if this gives me some relief I don't know why I wouldn't choose it. [/quote]
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