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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Check out the book "Boundaries" by Henry Cloud. I think it might help you. I think the key for you would be to stay calm in the moment. Like others pointed out, rather than sulking, to instead go and play with the 3yo. A line needs to be drawn. Your family has a really messed up dynamic, and I think you may not see it clearly because it's what you grew up with. I wouldn't visit with people who insulted my husband. In your shoes I'd skip the next holiday and let them know why. Let them think you're a bitch. [/quote] We are definitely planning on skipping the next holiday. I posted today because my mom called about brother's latest promotion and told me I needed to send a card. How about no.[/quote]
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