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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks - OP here.  I don't have any real indicator that he's talked to her about anything recently.  It came up a really long time ago about something pretty major.  In the context of some troubles we were having, he told her I was pregnant even though we'd agreed not to tell anyone (I may have even posted about this here, I can't remember).  About 1.5 years later he told me that, which is when I found out that he talks to her about marital stuff.  I overreacted, and basically forbade him to do it going forward.  That was all a year ago.  We did have at least one conversation since where I softened my position on him talking to her... I think similar to what PP suggested, we agreed in principle that he wouldn't talk to her about something without telling me either before or shortly after.  But really we haven't talked about this

Something happened this morning that I would really not want him sharing with her, so it just occurred to me to post, to see how reasonable that feeling was.  I don't think I'm going to specifically bring it up with him, I don't have any real reason to think he's doing it.[/quote]

I remember your post!  I think when you finally did a pregnancy announcement to the family, she pretended to be surprised or something, and you found out that she already knew after the fact?

If you're the same person, your husband is [b]completely[/b] out of line.[/quote]

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