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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does "support her" - support her decision, mean? It shouldn't mean having to tell her it's the right decision. It shouldn't mean having to listen to her problems and soothing her with comments that everything will be alright. It shouldn't be listening to her problems and needing to coming up with a solution to a problem of her own making. Love should never be about having to agree with someone's else's choices (as long as they are moral) At worst requiring "support" can be emotional manipulation. Love means you agree with me. Period.[/quote] EXACTLY. An earlier poster, said that you should expect your parents to be happy for you. Why? I expect my parents want the best for me, and how I see that and how they see it may vary from time to time. The same could be said for me and my kids. Love does not mean "supporting" or agreeing with everything a person does. It means loving them thru even the times you do not agree with them.[/quote]
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