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[quote=Anonymous]Nope, you'd be setting yourselves up for a whole lot of justified resentment. You told both kids they were on their own for grad school, no exceptions. No one forced your oldest to go in-state, that was entirely her decision because that's where she wanted to be, and you've made no suggestion that it was done as a generosity to you, to save you money. Now that they've both made irrevocable choices (even if the younger were to transfer, there's still that year of private costs they've incurred), it's not fair to change the rules in a way to benefits only one of them. It'll smack an awful lot of favoritism. If you have extra cash you didn't anticipate and want to do something for your kids with it, make it available to both of them in equal amounts for grad school, or give it as a nest egg when they graduate.[/quote]
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