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[quote=Anonymous]I see the consensus here is to go into full-fledged Nancy Drew mode and start gathering clues but I strongly suggest against it.  
Confront him.  
Why?
Because odds are you're going to walk around for weeks, months even with your mind going in a million different directions on a daily basis not to mention your emotions from doing your undercover detective work.
Why is that a bad thing?
Because once you start your undercover investigating its not going to be limited to checking his phone and his computer...you're going to end up checking his mannerisms, his gestures, his posture - everything.  Trying to find proof of his infidelity is going to become an obsession.
What's wrong with trying to uncover the truth?
Well if there is no hidden truth to be uncovered then YOU will be the one who'll be acting strange, not him and YOU will be the one ultimately under suspicion, not him.  
Do you really want to go from being the plaintiff to the defendant?  
That's what's going to happen when he's like, "Honey you need to do something about your mood swings have you thought of getting help?" and out comes "I FOUND A CONDOM IN YOUR GLOVE COMPARTMENT 6 MONTHS AGO, WHO IS SHE?!!!!"

You're going to look like a friggin nut.
Confront him now.  
Don't look like a friggin nut months later.[/quote]

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