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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand that the anger is probably about now being asked to ooh and ahh over their pregnancy and child, while yours was completely ignored.
They are expecting you to jump into line now to congratulate and welcome their child, while not welcoming yours. 
And in the midst of your infertility.
I totally get why you are upset.
It's not ok to ignore a human being for 4 years.
I can't believe your husband sat through hour long conversations that didn't even once involve your daughter.
And now you know he is going to listen to hours of conversation about their child.
I don't think infertility is a pass to be downright cruel.
Sorry but I completely disagree with the previous posters [/quote]

Completely agree with this, and although I am fortunate to have two kids, I've also had three miscarriages and remember the envy when a friend got pregnant during this struggle.  Taking a week  or two to get feelings under control when you are pregnant is understandable but what you describe is incredibly self-centered.  Sorry op they sound like horrible people.  [/quote]

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