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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not really a question of fertile couple. Usually one person has the problem.[/quote] Yes I get that, but TTC is stressful enough without pointing blame. Obviously it's usually one person, and I can only imagine the emotional burden that person feels. If it were me I think I'd feel broken or not good enough. I'd fear my husband would feel less of a man and have performance anxiety (an issue from time to time). If we can just conceive on our own one more time, we'll never have to know why it took so long and we can live blissfully unaware! Is it weird to think like that? [/quote] You know yourself best, but I think 1) you may feel better and less stressed (as DH and I did) testing and figuring out what the issue was so you can deal, and 2) if there IS a problem, not finding out about it won't help you conceive faster. We had a sperm issue but conceived easily with some help and are now expecting our second kid. [/quote]
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