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[quote=Anonymous]Op I have nothing to add but just echo that you need to let your husband lead 100% on this. I am in year 2 of this and still struggling with the resentfulness and bitterness (example: having to listen to DH in the next room on Skype explain for the 10,000 th time that we will not be bringing the kids to their 2nd vacation home ever and to not invite the kids, they are 2 and 4 and don't understand) but have focused on gritting my teeth and trying to feel bad for my husband for what a difficult person he has for a mother. I do absolutely nothing. He manages all the communication, visits, everything. The only "rule" we agreed on is that if she goes after me verbally to him, he has to say "if you have a problem with DW, please contact her directly" after a 2 hour rant he listened to last summer and was upset about for months before telling me. You just have to stay the course and keep your husband informed of what you are doing. [/quote]
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