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[quote=Anonymous]You don't need to wear makeup and try to be someone you are not.

I don't wear much makeup (just blush), and I wear jeans 99% of the time.  Even so, there are plenty of guys that are perfectly fine with this.  In fact, many like a low maintenance woman.

What i am trying to say is that there are some people out there who will LOVE you for just the person that you are.  Ultimately, that is what you want.

Don't give up.  Embrace the fear, and get out there and take a chance.  Honestly, ask yourself what is the worst case?  You go for coffee and there are no sparks.  Don't take it personally.  Odds are that you won't like everyone you go out with.  It doesn't mean that they are a bad person, they are just not the right one for you.  Same goes for you.  If someone doesn't ask you out again, it doesn't mean that you are not good enough -- it just means that it wasn't a real match.

If you don't like small talk, you could try to plan dates around an activity.  For example, meet someone at a pub with a Trivia night.  You get to play a game, show your smarts, and won't have to make as much small talk.  Go bowling, go ice skating at the sculpture garden.  If there is an activity, you might find yourself more comfortable.  And if your date is a bust, at least you got out of the house and had some fun.[/quote]

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