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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you don't find your wife attractive, and you're wondering why she doesn't want to have sex?  You sound like you just want a hole to stick it in.

I'm not going to tell you to do more around the house.  I'm going to tell you that if you want your wife to feel sexy, you have to treat her like you find her desirable.  Like you really want to have sex [u]with her[/u], not just with anyone.  [/quote]

Aaaand.....here they come. Obviously the man's fault that the woman gets fat and lets herself go. And if the man gets fat? Obviously the man's fault. Insensitive brutes.[/quote]

I didn't say it was his fault she gained weight.  I'm saying that someone who thinks his wife is fat and unattractive shouldn't be surprised that she isn't really excited to have sex with him.  [/quote]

Question for OP: To address PP's comment, which came first, the weight gain or her lack of excitement about having sex? If she was fat & jumping your bones, then maybe your lack of enthusiasm is the problem. If her desire for sex with you had diminished prior to her weight gain, then that's not the problem. [/quote]

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