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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spending time together without the kids is a good idea of course, but it's really only a possibility that doing so will bring her libido back.

These suggestions about helping spark a low libido wife always seem like throwing darts blind-folded. Maybe something will stick, but it doesn't seem like I hear a ton of success stories on this issue. Some folks helpfully chime in on coming back from a low sex period, but mostly the stories are in the other direction -- particularly when we're not talking about kids who are 0-2 years old. In this case, we have a 3 and 5 year old. [/quote]

Look focusing on the sex issue at this point is like worrying over a paper cut when your leg is broken. You can't go into this process with the mindset that if I do "X" my wife will have more sex with me. Doesn't work that way. You need to help her feel better about herself in order to have a functional marriage. Do that first, then worry about the sex. Have her get a full physical to rule out thyroid issues (v. common), get screened for depression and anxiety, and work on connecting with her person to person. [/quote]

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